Saturday, May 19, 2018


"MAKE IT SO SOCIAL"
A portion of the proceeds will benefit Rainbow Community Center 
Sat, June 16th - 7-9:15 p.m. in Bortin Hall
“Elena Undone”
A passionate romance between a pastor’s wife and a lesbian writer
 No one turned away for lack of funds—ask for assistance at the door
SUGGESTED DONATION:
$10=15 raffle tickets | $15=20 raffle tickets | $20=30 raffle tickets
Awesome raffle prizes - $25 & $50 GIFT CARDS + more

ALL ADULTS ARE WELCOME!
Presented by LGBTQ & FRIENDS Social Justice Committee in support of MDUUC’s Make It So: 2020 goals


Tuesday, May 15, 2018

Concord Pride on June 2!


Concord Pride is happening Saturday, June 2 from 3PM to 9PM in Todos Santos Square.  Join the Rainbow Community Center for a celebration of families, community, and YOU! This is the day to honor all who support and embrace diversity, love, and pride!

Festivities include crafts, beverages, and fun for the whole family!


The LGBTQ & FRIENDS Social Justice Committee will be responsible for two persons being at the MDUUC booth at all times. The idea is that we will take shifts so that no one has to be at the booth at all times.  Please sign up with our committee chairperson!

Saturday, March 31, 2018

Transgender Day of Visibility

Walnut Creek Civic Park, Hosted by Rainbow Community Center and the Interfaith Council of Contra Costa County
A number of speakers and representatives of the transgender community, support organizations, and welcoming and accepting faith based groups spoke at the Walnut Creek Transgender Day of Visibility.  The MDUUC LGBTQ & FRIENDS committee was represented as well, and passed out TRANS PRIDE bracelets.  

The MDUUC Congregation had written supporting notes for the transgender community during services for the previous Sunday, and these were strung together and hung about the gazebo, along with Trans Pride flags and balloons.

Transgender Day of Visibility (TDOV) is a day to show your support for the trans community! Every March 31st, it aims to bring attention to the accomplishments of trans people everywhere while fighting cissexism and transphobia by spreading understanding of trans people. Unlike Transgender Day of Remembrance, this is not a day for mourning: this is a day to be empowered and give the recognition trans folks deserve! Visibility is not about being seen as an individual: it’s working together to transform society.

Rachel Crandall, the head of Transgender Michigan, created in TDOV in 2009 to celebrate the trans community in a positive light. Read more about it here. Since 2013, Trans Student Educational Resources has taken over most social media, promotion, and outreach for TDOV.

This year’s theme is “surviving, thriving” (#TransThriving). This acknowledges the number of major transgender achievements in the past 12 months. We are not only surviving the current administration, but we are making strides to transform how people think about gender around the world. In the increasingly transphobic global political climate, we must use our newfound visibility to mobilize trans people against oppression. Speaking out, taking direct action, and educating others is critical to our safety and wellbeing. This recognizes that while visibility is important, we must take action against transphobia. Visibility is not enough alone to bring transgender liberation. However, we can use visibility as a vital tool for transgender justice.


Saturday, March 24, 2018

Make It So Social Dinner & Dance Event


The “MAKE IT SO SOCIAL” dinner & dance was well received by all. Everyone loved the food, music, percussion instruments, dance instruction, and the friendly people attending. It was a fun and friendly crowd!

As you can see….it takes a village!!!  Our gratitude and appreciation for all who helped toward our goal to Make It So: 2020:

DJ: Kaleo Ching
Drumming/Percussion: Mary Ferrick
Dance Instruction: Terese & Kevin McGregor
Cooks: Melissa Allen, Michelle Paquette
Food Displayed: Peggy Kern Payne
Flower Deco for tables : Suzanne Lofquist (flower arrangement), Nancy (setup)
Bead Deco for Tables: Claudia Lorie, Peggy Kern Payne
Greeters: Natalie Malter, Rev. Neal Anderson
Registration: Claudia Lorie, Elsie Miller, Trudy Foote
Mount Banners/SJ Table Setup:  Peggy Kern Payne, Elsie Mills
Cleanup Crew: Melissa Allen, Michelle Paquette, Peggy Kern Payne, Claudia Lorie, Elsie Mills, Nancy Newhart, Natalie Malter and many of our wonderful guests helped stack chairs
Tablecloth Laundry: Elsie Mills, Claudia Lorie
Organization/Advertising/Event Signage: Nancy Newhart



We had roughly 75 attendees out of 87 signups, including walk-ins. 45 were visitors, 18 members, 12 helpers (who were busy working most of the time vs socializing). We would like to see more members per visitor with the goal to have visitors return seeing more familiar faces.

Saturday, December 2, 2017



Here is a recap of MAKE IT SO SOCIAL from our Saturday, Dec 2, 2017 event.

LGBTQ & FRIEND’S first contribution to Make It So 2020 surpassed the original projections of 48 attendees:

  • 56 in attendance (25 signed up on Eventbrite with credit card…guaranteed money upfront!)
  • 29 MDUUC
  • 27 Potential Members






Kudos to the “village” workers:


  • Cynthia Krieger for setting up Eventbrite account & providing collection of the money, graphics for the flyers, 4x5 handout files and 11x17 standup sign for Welcome table.
  • Michelle Paquette for all the food shopping/cooking for chicken, hummus, gluten-free chips, yummy & beautiful looking sherbet punch and fruit water (stunningly beautiful, like an art piece in the room!)
  • Peggy Kern Payne for assisting Michelle lifting food out of the car and into the ovens, providing limes to add to fruit water and for covering the tables in the rainbow covers, installing MDUUC banner on game table.
  • Laura Zucker for choosing sound tracks & monitoring music needs, welcoming guests and donating her latest CD set for the raffle
  • Elsie Mills, Kate Newkirk, Trudy Foote and Lianne Davis at registration table taking money and giving out raffle tickets! 
  • Michelle Paquette, Elsie Mills, Peggy Kern Payne, Lianne Davis for kitchen clean-up
  • Mary Ferrick & Peggy Kern Payne and visitors who helped Nancy with stacking chairs and rolling game tables to back wall
  • Marena McGregor & Indigo Lewis for making arrangements for childcare, so Rainbow parents could attend 
  • Rev. Neal and Kate Newkirk as engaged members at game tables from Leadership Team
  • Rev. Leslie for stopping by to say hello, despite a dislocated thumb! OUCH!
  • Nancy marketed to various LGBTQ friendly organizations, printed flyers & 4x5 handouts; handled Eventbrite & Meetup attendee management; room layout/coordination with facilities; game table order/delivery/placement/pickup; registration sheets; mailing list signup sheets; raffle tickets in (6) & (10) strips; (3) “Donation/Raffle info” plexi-glass signs on registration table; set up  (2) 42” side tables with name tags, raffle tickets, raffle buckets, game labels, MDUUC business cards & “What Do Unitarian Universalists Believe? cards; hand letter Beverages/Dessert/Non-Allergy Food signs; set out allergy food flags; purchased all logistic supplies & raffle prizes; last minute 4pm ice and cash run for $200 in $5’s for change (almost forgot that last one!). Now, when I do this again, I don’t have to think on my feet….I have a list!
  • Special thanks to Elsie for fast thinking to show off the raffle prizes at the raffle bowl table in Bortin Hallway near the registration desk (who knew? I thought they were supposed to be a surprise!)



Sunday, November 19, 2017

We held a Transgender Day of Remembrance ceremony during both the 9:15 and 11:15 services at Mt. Diablo Unitarian Universalist Church on Sunday. November 19, 2017.  The short ceremony noted both the significance of the Transgender Pride flag, and the increasing number of murders of transgender persons, particularly transgender women of color.


https://youtu.be/z-1Icz29_jU

Sunday, August 20, 2017

What is Gender? - Beyond the Binary

What is Gender? -Beyond the Binary

This lecture by Michelle Paquette addresses the many facets of gender and its determination beyond the traditional male/female binary. This is the first in a series of educational talks with an LGBTQ focus. 45 people were in attendance in the Sanctuary with a lively Q&A afterwards.

A video recording was produced by MDUUC of the presentation and Q&A session, and is available on YouTube.


Online Video Available

The presentation includes an informative 1 hour talk on gender, beyond the binary. There is more to gender than just the binary, male and female, that we grow up with in Western culture. Learn about gender identity, gender presentation, gender orientation and the third gender concepts. Learn what's the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation.

What is Gender - Beyond the Binary

Extended Q&A Content

Lecture Handout - 4 pages (PDF, 1.5 Mb)


Finding the Joy We Can, Opening to New Sources of Joy

Welcome!  I am Michelle Paquette, and my pronouns are She/Her/Hers. The whole world seems to be afire with tensions and strife.  TV, th...